I am so old school y’all. I mean I think I am. Now I know you are saying…HOW?
Well when it comes to relationships I still live by the old school standards that the man
does certain things and the wife does certain things and there is no mixing… only in extreme circumstances. Ok, I’m not to bad, I don’t think that all the woman should do is cook and clean while the husband works..this ain’t the “Steford” wives. (plus my husband is an awesome cook, I don’t want to miss out on that good eating).
I do believe that the man is the head – Ephesians 5:22 – 23 AMP reads Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as [a service] to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as Christ is head of the church, Himself being the Savior of the body.
Those scriptures teaches us our roles as husband and wife. I am taking it so lightly when I say certain things I think the man should do around the home. I mean if something breaks, fix it or call the repairman. I used to think only the man should take out the garbage but my husband said that is DEAD!!! Lol The husband manages the finances, mows the lawn and shovels the snow. WOW… I am old school – this is how I saw it in my home though so can you blame me and I did watch a lot of the “Cosby Show” – thought my family was like the Huxtables. WHAT? Its not a bad family to model after for your own family.
I know you are thinking I am small minded but what is wrong with living this way. Some women have ruined the old school standards. We want to be so INDEPENDENT. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with independence but if you have a man let him be the MAN!
I’m done apologizing I want some of the “Old School” – open our door, wash our cars, take out the trash and pump the gas. it’s all out of love – Ephesians 5:25 AMP reads Husbands, love your wives [seek the highest good for her and surround her with a caring, unselfish love], just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.
When your not around we do it but you do it so much better and we know it’s because you LOVE US.